Spending time alone with your significant other is critical to a successful relationship. Seems logical but many couples find themselves overwhelmed with their daily routines that they miss this very important step. However, spending just a few hours alone is at times, all you need. Connecting with each other, especially away from the stresses of home life, can significantly improve your relationship. Baby-sitters, friends or family that can give you that break is ideal, however, if you don’t have that support group, then make sure at least once a week, kids go to sleep early and do your own date night. Spending this time alone serves many purposes and can bring you closer together when things seems to be falling apart. When one kid is screaming, the other one scraped their knee or there are clothes all over floor, can get on your nerves and you’ll find yourself taking it out on others. Kids are a blessing but if you’re unable to manage your time, they can also become part of a stressor that can damage your relationship. Explaining to kids that parents need to spend time alone may seems strange at the beginning but take the leap. This type of communication is also good for the child’s development. If they see you spending time with the ones you love, they’ll also make time for their loved ones in the future. Children learn best by example so lead the way.
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